You might dislike you life for not having few friends when others having good friend circles. Or may consider yourself lonely but that’s completely depends on your mindset.
Look, there are always multiple ways to views things. You must try to view things in a positive way.
Look if you spend most of the time alone, it’s not like you’re doing something wrong or something is wrong with you. Being alone is not bad!
You can have two perspective of being alone
- You have full freedom, what we all wanted in our childhood
- You’re lonely, ‘you should have friends or a partner, being alone is wrong.’
So if you have thoughts like about second lines, you should stop thinking like that! Being alone is not wrong at all.
Look, its completely your choice to be alone or not. You should be alone or not should be decided by your happiness. If you’re not happy with your current friends or partner, its better to stay alone for some time. But if you’re not really happy, you should call your friends or partner.
As you might understood that being alone is not so wrong but how can you just start being fine and happy with it suddenly? Chill, we have 5 ways to follow if you want to stay alone and happy.
1. Respect Your Present Time
Because time never stops. If you don’t respect you’re present now, it will become past and you will regret later. Never waste time. Spend your time like it won’t come back.
2. Appreciate What You Have
We all want what we don’t have and don’t value what we have. Actually, I used to buy a lot of new things and ignore the things I already had. That’s a terrible thing I did but thankfully I understood early and stopped myself from purchasing brand new products which were really not needed.
So you should value what you already have.
3. Make Some Future Plans
If you don’t have future plans, life will not a have certain direction. Your life will be completely depended on your at the time decision. To avoid that, plan you future! Not only financial but a list of things you wanted to do. If you have goals, plan to achieve those goals as well.
Have some emergency funds as time can change at anytime. All you can do is to be prepared for it.
Have small term, mid term and long term plans, plan as you need but just don’t live without future plans.
Note: Plan your future but live present too. Don’t ruin you present time caring too much about future.
4. Get Out Of Your Comfort-zone
Comfort-zone is undoubtedly dangerous place as it prevents you from improving yourself and stops you from achieving all the things you’re capable of.
Staying inside the comfort-zone is just like a surrender. You will just stop fighting for your dreams and goals. All a comfort-zone can do is harm! Get out of it.
5. Respect Yourself, Never Compare Yourself With Anyone.
You will not get anything in comparing. All that it can give you is unnecessary sadness.
Look, everyone is different. We all have different mindsets and not everyone is financially equal. So comparing you with someone else makes no sense as everything won’t be identical.
I never compared myself with anyone and I never felt any need for it. Same case applies to you as well, there’s no need of comparing. Learn to respect yourself.